12 November, 2009

my princess ...sick again...

It was 3 days ...and she said ...maaaa I miss my school", she said that last night just before went to sleep...i miss.. icha.. hanin..farah .. sarah.. ibu ninik, ibu esih ... Oh, so sweet...made me smile! I think that's the word every mom in the world want to hear from their kids about school. Yesterday, my little girl medina stayed at home because of her fever. ..and caugh.. . before, I was a little bit worried about her fever ,but alhamdulillah ..she was getting better .. . Hope I didn't make a wrong choice for her ..@ Al Azhar islamic of school ..i just believe and trust my heart that my girl would be at the best place for learning there.. She was getting better last night and this morning I've sent her to school......i love you Medina ..

29 Oktober, 2009

Saturday morning always....its a great time for her..She's busy from morning till noon..
My girl Nabila.. .... maybe she' has found a new hobby....playing Sofball.. and till now, she's joining a softball team from Labschool ... Ohh.. my girl ....let's Be careful out there............

24 September, 2009

lebaran moment 1430 H

it's 20-09-2009 and it means 1 syawal 1430 H ...L E B A R A N after a ramadhan fasting month,Alhamdulillah finally we celebrate it! , we're (muslims) have idul fitri . I feel very excited. meeting my whole big family is a very very rare moment! , Just like a year ago..every Ied Mubarak (Lebaran), after having sholat ied @ alazhar mosque with *this year I have it with all my children and my hubby . it's a tradition that run in my husband family in jakarta first . All those 5 bro and sis family. And only one here in jakarta. .the oldest in pakanbaru,.. *and i had 7 sibling actually, are gathering in one place. ..Bandung always .. ======================================================================= And.. For all my friend , my fam .... Happy Ied Mubarak! Happy lebaran day from the bottom of my heart, I deeply apologize for every single word, thought, and mistake I've made to MI NAL AIDZIN WALFAIDZIN......mohon maaf lahir bathin.. ___

08 September, 2009

The beautiful dress for medina ....

Finally i have time for browsing internet. I found nice muslim kidswear for medina , i should gift medina something special for this ramadhan and ' lebaran'.........i found this shop... I though medina would seem so beautiful wearing this dress.. ..

Alhamdulillah ......Khatam

Alhamdulillah ...today .. We have finish the Quran.. I and my neighbour who stay in Jakapermai Kompleks read Alquran together ( tadarusan )lead by ust Rofiq. Alhamdulillah, the reading took 17 days untill finally Khatam So i ..thought it would be nice if i share The dua's khatam Quran here.......
(which I can be found at the back of tafsir Quran but mostly just in its arabic text and Indonesian translation ).
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Allahummarhamni Bil Quran Waj’alhu lii Imaaman Wa Nuuran Wa Huda Wa Rohmah Allahumma Dzakkirni Minhu maa Nasiitu Wa’allimni Minhu maa Jahiiltu Warzuqnii Tilaawatahu Aana Al Laili Wa Aana An Nahaari Waj’alhu lii Hujjatan Yaa Rabbal ‘Alamin

Ya Allah Kasih Sayangilah daku dengan sebab AlQuran ini Dan jadikanlah AlQuran ini sebagai pemimpin sebagai cahaya sebagai petunjuk dan sebagai rahmat bagiku

Ya Allah ingatkanlah daku apa-apa yang aku lupa dalam AlQuran yang telah Kau jelaskan dan ajarilah apa-apa yang aku belum mengetahui Dan karuniailah daku selalu sempat membaca AlQuran pada malam dan siang hari Dan jadikanlah AlQuran ini sebagai hujjah bagiku

Ya Allah Tuhan semesta alam

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And finally ..Thanks so much for my friend ...thanks for your Email..your " tauziah " for me ..and I share to everyone all muslim ..my Children especially ...Tips and Quick preparation for ramadhan
  1. Start reading Quran daily after Sholat al-Fajr.
  2. Spend some time listening to recitations from the Quran.
  3. Train yourself to go bed early so that you can wake up for Qiyam o Allayl (Prayer at midnight) & Solat al-Fajr.
  4. Keep yourself in a state of Wudu (Ablution) most of the time.
  5. Evaluate yourself daily before going bed.
  6. Thank Allah for good deeds, and repent to Him for your mistakes and sins.
  7. Start giving Sadaqah daily , no matter how little. Make it a habit like eating and drinking.
  8. Find time to pray extras, such as Tahajjud prayers.
  9. Spend more time reading Islamic books, especially the Quran, Hadith, and Fiqh.
  10. Find time to help others with your wisdom, knowledge and other talents. For example, By telling them a short sentence like: Keep saying Astaghfir Allah (Oh Allah forgive me) All the time.
  11. Try to write articles on Islam for Muslims as well as for non-Muslims.
  12. Associate with Muslim scholars / ulama and other pious people so that you may learn from them.
  13. Train yourself to do good, render free service to others to seek the pleasure of Allah.
  14. 14. Prepare Niyyah (Intention) for everything you do, just to change all your habits to Ibadah (Worshipping), for example :
  • Before going to bed: Say: Oh Allah I will sleep to wake up with full power to worship you well and to perfom my work perfectly.
  • Before you walk, Jog, Run or doing exercise, say: Oh Allah, I will do that to build my mussels to be strong muslim.
  • Before you eat or drink, say: Oh Allah, I will do that to build my body to worship you better.
  • While you are looking at the beautiful creature and nature, say: Oh Allah, How amazing is your creature. Sobhan Allah.
  • Before you go to toilet, say: Oh Allah, I want to take care of the body you gave me to worship you better.
  • Before you take a shower, say: Oh Allah, I am cleaning my body because the cleaning is part of Iman (Faith).
  • Before you fill the petrol in your car’s tank or your Motor bike, say: Oh Allah, I will fill it to go to Masjid, help my brothers and sisters.
  • Before you speak to anyone, Say: Oh Allah, Make my nice words and smile with my brother a continuous charity (Sadaqah Jariyah). Because Mohammed Salla Allah Alyhi wa Sallam said: the nice word is sadaqah.
Beautiful Idea to perform Khatam (Read the whole Quran):
There are 5 prayers a day. If you read 4 pages after each prayer which takes 5-10 minutes to perform, you will finish one juzu' (1 out of 30 parts of the Quran). Ramadhan contains 30 days. So, by the end of Ramadhan you will finish one Khatamah.
What to avoid:
  1. Avoid/reduce watching TV; instead spend more time reading the Quran and other Islamic literature.
  2. Avoid looking at unlawful pictures, whether magazines, department store catalogs or otherwise.
  3. Spend free time in Masjid, Islamic organizations and make that a daily habit.
  4. If you smoke, try to reduce daily usage; otherwise Ramadan will be very difficult for you to observe.
  5. If you have friends who do not practice the teaching of Islam, try to avoid socializing with them.
  6. If you travel a lot on business, try to do more local business, so you can be more closer to your family and community.
  7. If you are used to staying up till midnight, try to go to bed earlier, so that you will be able to wake up early for Salat al-Fajr and Tahajjud prayers as well.
To prepare ourselves before the month of Ramadan arrives is far better than waiting till it comes. To prepare ourselves for anything in life is a sign of wisdom and maturity. No one is assured of living one day more; tomorrow may not come. So hurry and benefit from blessings and rewards from Allah. Remember: "Time is not money or gold; it is life itself and is limited. You must begin to appreciate every moment of your life and always strive to make the best use of it."
A Quick Checklist:
  1. Make a resolve to win the maximum favor of Allah by performing extra Voluntary prayers (Nawaafil), making frequent Dua and increased remembrance (Dhikr).
  2. Try to recite some Holy Quran after every Prayer. In fact if you read 3-4 pages after every Prayer you can easily finish the entire Quran in Ramadan!
  3. Study the Tafseer (commentary of Quran) every morning.
  4. Invite a person you are not very close with or your relatives to your home for Iftaar, at least once a week (Weekend). You will notice the blessings in your relationships!
  5. Bring life to your family! Everyday, try to conclude the fast with your family and spend some quality time together to understand each other better.
  6. Give gifts on Eid to at least 5 people: 2 to your family members, 2 to your good friends, and 1 to a person whom you love purely for the sake of Allah.
  7. Make commitment to join Islamic study circles to learn more about Islam and improve your own life..
  8. Donate generously to the Masjid, and any where people are in need or oppressed. "Because Ramadan, is a month of sharing!"
  9. Share month of Ramadan and its teachings of peace and patience with your neighbors.
  10. Sleep little, eat little! Make sure you do not defeat the purpose of fasting by over-indulging in food and being lazy.
  11. Seek the rare and oft-neglected rewards of the night better than 1000 months (Laylatul-Qadr / Shab-e-Qadr ).
  12. Weep in private for the forgiveness of your sins: Ramadan is the month of forgiveness and Allah's Mercy! It's never too late.
  13. Learn to control your tongue and lower your gaze. Remember the Prophet's (PBUH) warning that lying, backbiting, and a lustful gaze all violate the Ramadan fast!
  14. Encourage others to enjoin and love goodness, and to abandon everything that Allah dislikes. Play the role of a Da'ee (one who invites to Allah) with zeal, passion, and sympathy.
  15. Experience the joy of Tahajjud prayers late at night and devote yourself purely and fully to Allah in the Itikaf retreat during the last 10 days of Ramadan.

07 September, 2009

i really miss my father...

This night.. a middle of ramadhan.. i really miss my father ...

i remembered.. 37 years ago.. he passed away..

I miss my father.. I really miss you.,... Bapak I wish you were here....tonight And you still in my heart

My husband and Two of my brothers, were much older, so they treated me not like a "father" would.... i reallly really miss you..

05 September, 2009

My brother sick...

Today.... back in my hometown, again... Bandung . i got message that my brother ...(old brother actually) sick Hospital of Sentausa Bandung.. well..... today at five thirty in the morning . i'll be seating in the car of 'Cipaganti' alone... i sat on the right hand side seat in the car ,I saw pretty landscape of part of java island outside my window...i was greatfull to see them....actually i didnt want to miss a thing but zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...i was tired and sleepy .. I will most likely sleep during the 2 hours journey ..and maybe i dream about my hometown, about my father, about my brother i met in hospital in this day....i dont know ..a thousand felling next towards on me.........Hope everything will be OK